I'm AMAB and I prefer my included parts as well. I'm a self-described femboy, although I don't identify as a cis man. I should get less dysphoria than you tbh, but for some reason I do. I've tried using the default character names, but it still just feels weird when the narration says "you." That being said, it's not like it's impossible for me to play games where I have to be masc presenting, it's just uncomfortable. I appreciate your suggestions though!
Edit: I just reread your comment, and I realized you said you use an OC name that persists across games instead of just using the default. Honestly, that's sort of genius, and I didn't realize that's what you were getting at. I'll totally try that. Thank you!